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Thursday, March 13, 2014

EASY DISTRACTIONS

Recently I saw the following while scrolling though my news feed on Facebook:  A tee shirt with the following words: 
“Being a good writer is 5% talent and 95% not being distracted by the internet”

I thought about the saying for a while. 

I pondered the thought the following day as I sat working on my current project; preparing a book of poetry to have published.

As I sat working through the process of coping, cutting and pasting my poems to for the proper format paper size, I became distracted.  I heard ‘clicking’ type sounds, which meant new emails were going into my in-box.  I stopped what I had been doing to read them.  A few emails were from sites I subscribe and a few were personal emails which I decided I should reply to immediately.  Finally after thirty minutes I got back to the formatting process for my book.  Ten minutes later, I heard ‘click’ again and another email went into my in-box.  This time It was about books available that day for me to download to my Kindle; naturally I was curious.  I opened the email and began to click on each listed title to see if it was something I wanted to read; of course f found two of interest to me.  Another fifteen minutes spent away from working on my project. 

Upon returning back to the task at hand, I heard noises outside. I looked out the window and saw that two sand cranes landed across the street near the bocce ball area.  I watched as they maneuvered around the court before making their way to the street to walk across to my drive way.  Their trumpeting sounds so loud as if they were calling out to me.  I got out of my chair and walked to the window to look out to get a better view of the creatures.  They stopped at the end of my driveway then lumbered on their spindled legs towards my neighbor’s house and up the street.  My eyes focused on them until they were out of my sight.  Again I returned to my desk and the job on which I was working.  Once more I began the process of copy, cut and paste each poem individually to the proper format.  What should have taken an hour or so to complete took over two and a half hours.  Finally I had my file complete to be uploaded for publication.  I decided I’d let the document file sit for a day to reviewed it again before submitting. 

I then began to work on a vignette for “Murphy Madness II” a series of life stories, another writing project.  This time, I decided to log off the internet so I could work without being distracted.  Unfortunately it did not happen.  Outside noises again caught my attention causing me to look out the window.  I watched as a group of adults deiced to play croquet across the street from me (the croquet area is next to where the bocce ball court is located).  The players sounded like a bunch of little children as they yelled at one another and laughed.  Since I found them so intriguing, I decided that my vignette would have to wait.

I have come to the conclusion, the ideal time to work on my projects is in the early evening when nothing outside would be a distraction.  Also I would not be logging back on to the internet at that time of day.  I have specific times I go on-line; they are in the early morning, mid-afternoon (around three) and evenings after ten.  My plan is to write between five and eight in the evening; nothing on television of any interest at that time and the world outside my house is generally quiet. 

Until next time, if you are a writer, don’t let the internet distract you.  Well I have to stop typing now, just heard two ‘clicks’….I’ve got mail.

Tuesday, February 11, 2014

Still Time to Shop

Since my last blog, the television, radio and store advertisements have been reminding us all that Valentine’s Day is fast approaching.  I even received emails from some of the establishments where I like to eat offering deals.  Yesterday I walked into a store and picked up the store sales flyer; the top of the first page listed the deals they were offering.  I did notice one item not on the shelf, I asked about it to a store employee who told me they sold out of it last week.  Hmm, I wonder who will be drinking the bottle of Strawberry Irish Cream.  Whoever, do hope they find it tasty. 

A few days ago I made a trip to a dollar store.  I was amazed at all the items they had for purchase to help celebrate the day.  During this trip I had seen items that I did not notice on prior visits.  There were men’s ties; red in color with white hearts.  I thought of getting one for my husband, but decided to save my money.  He’d never wear it anyhow.  They had sun glasses with a rose tint; the lenses were heart shaped.  As I continued on my way through the store, I noticed that a woman did buy both a tie and a pair of the sun glasses.  I hope whoever the recipient is, they appreciate the thought. I mentioned to my husband I could use a new pair of sun glasses.  He just ignored me and continued on his way toward another part of the store. 

After arriving home, I worked on the card I planned to send to my six year old grandson.  Happy with having that task complete I began to rack my brains on a Valentine for my husband.  Finally came up with something on the 10th day of February.  I composed two verses for inside the card; one a short acrostic verse using the word “LOVE” and the second a longer poem.  I still have to find clip art for the card and print it off but I have a few days yet.  I also decided upon his gift which happens to be a few books which I hope will arrive in time.  If not, I have a back-up plan ready.  Unfortunately I have not figured it out as of yet.  I still have three days to do so.

My husband must have paid attention to my last blog as he decided to do something totally different this year.  Each day since February 7th, he has given me a whimsical little gift.  The first day it was a pair of heart shaped earrings; the second day a coffee mug with red and pink hearts on it; the third day a bouquet of lollipops (six total).  I put the lollipops into a vase on my book case.  On the 10th of February, he gave me the pair of pink tinted sun glasses I had seen at the dollar store. This gift came in handy, the sun was out and my other pair of sun glasses needed to be replaced (the lenses were scratched).  He said as he handed me the glasses, “Now you can look at the world through rose colored glasses”.  (So original).  Today’s little surprise is three small boxes of conversational hearts.  Like my candy corn tribute on Halloween, I always eat fifteen of those little hearts during this time of year. 

Since there are only a few days left until Valentine’s Day, I am wondering what else to expect.  Perhaps he will find a little skunk stuff animal and hand it to me with the endearing words written on a piece of paper, “Love Stinks, but do love ya”; hard to tell at the moment.  I could luck out by having him tell me to download a romance novel to my Kindle.  Well whatever the remainder is of the gifts; they will be welcomed and quite appreciated.

Once the day of hearts, flowers and chocolates becomes a memory, my husband has only one day left to try to come up with the next gift to me.  My birthday is two days after Valentine’s Day.  Not sure which really stinks, Valentine’s Day or having another birthday.  I go with the second choice.

Until next time…..today is February 11th, you have today, the 12th and 13th to get that special person a Valentine.  Of course you could always just celebrate on the 15th when all Valentine’s Day items go on sale. 


L’AMOUR…..NOW AND ALWAYS
©Scottie-ann Murphy (2013)

Love can not be purchased at the local mall
But a wonderful gift that one freely gives to another
There is no promise that each day will be filled
With roses, soft music and laughter …,
Love is…… believing in all things possible….
Hoping for the best each and every day….
Enduring uncharted paths taken….
Dark rainy days and stormy seas
No problems too small or great to solve together
“For love conquers all” someone once said
Love is a constant when two people
Unconditionally give their hearts to one another
Love is a warm wonderful feeling within
And a true love is always….it never ends

Tuesday, February 4, 2014

Hearts, Flowers, Chocolates.....Valentine's Day Approaches


Words of love……but what can one say that has not already been said?
Heart shaped boxes of chocolates and red roses….what can one give that would be different from the traditional?

Valentine’s Day seems to put pressure on those in relationships. 
The search for the perfect Valentine card with sentimental words
or perhaps one that is a bit on the humorous side.  Deciding on which box of chocolates to give….there are so many to choose from.   During my trips to different stores to shop, I have seen more than my share of boxes of chocolates being sold for the holiday.  Some boxes had a red satiny ribbon; a few were just a plain red heart.  One store had a twenty pound rectangular box. I have no idea who would be able to consume that much candy, but no doubt the recipient would consider the thought behind the gift wonderful.  I have seen teddy bears in various sizes wearing a red bow.  They seem to be shouting out “buy me, buy me”.  One store had cute little stuffed animals; my favorite a little white dog which I though about getting for myself.  Mylar balloons, ceramic heart shaped boxes and silk roses sit upon shelves.  Of course the floral shops will be busy creating arrangements for those who will be sending or giving flowers in person; they also will be having a large supply of red roses on hand.  The jewelry stores will be doing more ads on television, radio and in the newspapers.  Diamonds and rubies will most likely be the gems that will adorn the heart shaped rings, pins, necklaces, earrings and bracelets that will be featured for the holiday.  More of the color red will be worn on February 14th with pink coming in a close second.  Restaurants will be offering special dinner deals for the day.  Bakeries and bakery sections of the stores will have heart shaped cookies, cupcakes frosted with pink and white icing with a red heart on them and heart shaped cakes will be decorated with roses and hearts.  Booksellers will hope to rid their shelves of romance/love novels and poetry books.

Each year I try to write the perfect verse for the card I create for my husband.  After twenty-three years, it is hard to think of something to say that I already have not said.  For my husband, trying to come up with something special to present to me has become more of a chore than something fun to do. I do not need another piece of jewelry, another stuffed animal, another heart shaped dust collector (knick-knack) or a box of candy.  At my house chocolate sits in the refrigerator and is thrown out evidently.  We go out to eat often, so a nice dinner out someplace is not special to me.  I like roses but they make me sneeze (allergies).

So here I sit, with less than two weeks to Valentine’s Day unsure of how to declare my feelings of love.  A few years ago I had the same dilemma.  I ended up writing a silly verse that I created on a 4”X6” card.  It went something like this:
Today’s the day for hearts and flowers
And boxes of chocolate candy
So here’s a heart
Here’s a rose
And here’s a box of candy.

I gave my husband the following gift that year. I went to a dollar store and purchased a red gift bag.  Inside I put a red cardboard heart I cut out; put in a single silk red rose I found at the dollar store and a box of Junior Mints.  Hence he got his heart, flower and box of candy.  I may do something similar this year.  I am leaning toward the purchase of a small water globe that has a heart inside.  I happen to see a flower in a flower pot that when activated by the sun the flower moves back and forth; as for the candy I plan to buy a box of Butterfinger pieces.        

Sometimes I think ‘love’ stinks.  A few years ago my husband said it all when he gave me a picture of Pepe Le Pew holding a heart.  Next to the little fellow he wrote the words… “Love Stinks but Happy Valentine’s Day anyhow. What more can one say?”

Until next time…..I am getting ready to go out shopping for my husband’s Valentine’s Day gift.  Well come to think of it, he likes hoagies (subs)…maybe a gift card to a sub shop will be fitting as well as a container of his favorite fruit this time of year Plant City strawberries and a card I actually purchase at the dollar store….works for me.

Monday, January 27, 2014

TWO HOLIDAYS....ONE DAY

Seems like the football season just started and now it will be concluding this weekend.  Sunday the Super Bowl will be played in the Meadowlands in New Jersey.  Many consider Super Bowl Sunday a holiday.  Many will celebrate with hoopla by either hosting a party or attending one.  The sports bars will be crowded as football fanatics will gather for the last game of the season.  Beer will flow from the taps; wings, pizza, nachos and other party delights will be eaten. 

This year Super Bowl is being held on another holiday.  February 2nd is Groundhog Day.  Usual Punxsutawney Phil is the main hero of the day by coming out of his Gobbler's Knob home to make his prediction.  If Phil sees his shadow then there will be six more weeks of winter; if he does not see his shadow there will be an early spring.  It is always the hope that Phil does not see his shadow making Phil the hero of the day; cheers and hurrahs all around for the little groundhog.

Of course with all the hype this week about the Super Bowl, Phil may be a forgotten personality on Sunday.  He will be replaced with cheers and hurrahs for Peyton Manning and the Broncos or Russell Wilson and the Seahawks.  Football fans will be glued to the television to see if Peyton Manning will be the first quarterback to win two Super Bowls with two different teams. 

Oh poor Phil, he may not be the lead story on the news.  Of course, he may be fortunate in case he does see his shadow as he may be jeered by those who gather for the celebration held each year in Punxsutawney. 

It is hard to predict what the lead story of the day will be; but I do hope Phil gets his fifteen minutes of fame come this Sunday. 

I will be among those celebrating February 2nd.  My day will begin early in the morning as I watch the news to find out what Phil predicts.  I will drink my yearly toast to the little guy; then if one of the channels is showing the movie “Groundhog Day” I will watch it.  Around three in the afternoon, I plan to get ready for some football by watching the pre-game show on the FOX network.  All that as well as the big game, the half-time show and the great commercials will make Sunday a very long day for me.

Until next time, I am getting ready for Groundhog Day/Super Bowl Sunday; making my list of drinks and snacks I plan to consume.  Go Phil; please don’t see your shadow. 

Monday, January 20, 2014

Season of Snowbirds

‘Snowbird Season’ has arrived here in Florida.  Wherever I go, I see license plates from places up North, such as New Jersey, New York, Pennsylvania, Ohio, Michigan, Illinois, Wisconsin and Indiana.  The community where I reside, mostly I see Ohio, Michigan and a few from Pennsylvania.  Having the winter residents’ return to my gated community, makes for more traffic.  More people are out walking and enjoying the Florida weather.  I see more people driving golf carts on the road; many drive as if they are in a NASCAR race and not going the posted speed limit.  There are more bicycles going past my house as well as more cars and trucks.  With the ‘snowbird season’ in full swing, within my gated community the games have begun or sports as our newsletter refers to them.
During this time of year I don’t need a calendar to let me know the day of the week.  All I have to do is look out my window and I know if it is Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday etc… I can see most of the games/sports being played.  A few years back, I wrote a poem about the croquet players called “Adults at Play”.  I dedicated it to them (of course I don’t think they know this).  No matter how cold it is, there they are out in full force, bundled up in jackets, hats, scarves and a few are wearing gloves.  I watch as I sit at my computer working on my latest writing endeavor while sipping a warm beverage.  Sometimes I wonder, should I set up a concession stand to make a few extra bucks.   Sure some out there could use a hot cup of coffee, tea or hot chocolate to take off the chill.  When it is warmer, I can offer bottles of water, Gatorade or a ginger ale.  It is nice to see adults acting like children.  No doubt it keeps them young as it keeps me young just watching them.  One drawl back for me, backing out my driveway; I have to look both ways at least three times before backing out onto the street.  There are times when out of nowhere a golf cart comes barreling down the road, a bicyclist pedals from somewhere and a car or two also appears suddenly. 
I do welcome all those who come to the ‘Sunshine State’ during the winter.  They spend money which helps the economy.  Once they migrate home, I again have to consult my calendar to find out what day of the week it is.  Oh well, that is why I have one handy.  Until next time…..I hear the whacking of the croquet mallets upon the wooden ball which means today is Monday. 




ADULTS AT PLAY
(Dedicated to the croquet players from Orange Manor West and Orange Manor East of Winter Haven, Florida—March 2008)
©Scottie-ann Murphy


A whacking noise
  A crashing blow
Wood hitting upon wood

Cheers
  And jeers
Of those at play
  On lush green grass
    Laughing like children
In the noon day sun
   Under a cloudless blue sky

The sounds
     Penetrate into my ears,
Behind darken window panes
     Silently I watch…..
                 A peeping Tom peering out into the world

Croquet day has arrived once more

Saturday, January 11, 2014

Baked Delights

The Christmas holidays of 2013 are now a memory.  This past season made my tenth year of celebrating the holiday in Florida.  I found that this year I had a few things I missed about Christmas in the North;  no not the thought of a “white Christmas”.  This year it seems I missed certain foods I always associated with the holiday.

Growing up in Chicago, my step-grandmother always made walnut roll and poppy seed roll.  I am not a fan of poppy seed roll.  When I moved to Northeastern Pennsylvania in my twenties, both walnut and poppy seed roll were big items for not only Christmas but Easter as well.  There is nothing better than a slice of walnut roll, or nut roll as some call it, and a cup of coffee in the morning or even in the afternoon.  Unfortunately, I can not get this item here in the Sunshine State.  The area where I reside has no family owned or privately owned bakeries that would produce such a delicious bake good.  Most baked goods are purchased in the bakery departments of the local grocery stores.

This year I had what you would call a ‘hankering’ for nut roll.  I began my search early in December by approaching the bakery departments of the grocery stores.  None made or sold it. In fact one person told me straight out that she had been doing baking for this store chain for over 20 years and never heard of such a thing as nut roll or walnut roll and does not even think it existed. 

Not only did I have the craving for nut roll, but also for homemade kielbasa.  The stuff we get is made by a large company pre-packaged and can be picked up in the same location as hot dogs.  No doubt missing certain items is the price one pays to live in sunny Florida.

What I don’t understand is with all those who locate to Florida, why none of the store owned bakeries do not make nut roll during the holidays.  I am sure if they did, they would make a nice tidy profit.

Since I wanted nut roll, I ended up calling a family member in Pennsylvania who has finally gotten around to sending it to me.  Okay I did not have it for Christmas but will have it in time for Orthodox New Year which will be January 14th.  One thing I already plan to do; take a photo of the walnut roll before it is sliced, then another photo after it is sliced.  I plan to take these photos to the baker who told me she never heard of such a thing and show her it does exist.

Well time to go now, my lunch is ready.  My husband made pork barbeque sandwiches like we get up in Pennsylvania.  I hope we have enough relish to put on them.  Bon Appetite. 

Wednesday, January 1, 2014

ANOTHER YEAR BEGINS


A new year has started once again.  On the last day of the previous year or the first day of a new year, many will make resolutions they hope to keep.  Personally, I make a list of intentions that I hope to see through.  For some reason I do not like the word ‘resolution’; not sure why just my thought.  But when I use the word ‘intention’ it says to me, “I intend to do this or do that.”  No matter if you call them New Year’s Resolutions, Goals for the new year, Intentions or List Plan for the new year, it all comes down to the same thing doesn’t it?  Seeing each goal through and trying hard not to break them.

Last year, I intended to begin a blog, which I did.  Unfortunately my good intention of doing one per week fell by the wayside after my post in September.  I have no excuse as to why this occurred, but it happened.  Going back over my New Year’s Intention list for 2013, I saw a note I made about keeping my aspirations for the year.  I wrote that if I fell from grace in trying to keep one, I should not abandon the goal, but make a note in my journal and begin anew.  A few who confessed they had broken their resolutions were given the advice to just begin again; yet I find I did not follow my own words. 

This year, I intend to do so.  I already made my list of aspirations for 2014; if I do not keep one goal, I will take my advice and start again.  Of course, we all should realize, goals should be realistic so we can see them through.  In short, take things in stride and one day at a time.

I do plan to write a blog each week, and if I do fall from grace and miss a week, I will just begin again.  This year I do not plan to be a failure. On a lighter note, I did complete a few of my intentions for 2013; not all but a few so I should be satisfied with myself.  As you make your goal list for 2014, take a few moments to review your list for 2013 to see how many goals you did keep. 

So until next time….HOPE YOU ALL HAVE A HAPPY, PROSPEROUS, HEALTHY AND WONDERFUL NEW YEAR.







This poem I wrote in the middle of January 2012.  As I re-read this today, I am going to keep it handy so I know if I break a goal, to begin again.


GOALS FOR THE NEW YEAR
(January 2012)


The ball drops in Times Square each year at the stroke of mid-night
  one year ends……another year begins

To ourselves we make New Year’s resolutions
 promises to change….to make our lives better
 or to do something we may have wanted 
   but never took the opportunity

We may decide to loose weight,
  begin an exercise routine
   save more money….spend less
    or take time to stop and smell the flowers
These good intentions we begin on the first day of the year
 hoping each day to see them through
 Unfortunately by February first, many have been broken

Aspirations made on January first seem attainable at the time

The objectives we begin at the start of the New Year
  give us feeling of accomplishment 

We begin to eat healthy, start the exercise regime
  take up the hobby and make life changes
    these objectives are long term
When we break one or two….we become defeated
  failing in our Big Plan
Instead of abandoning our new goals
   we should pick up the broken pieces….
     and begin anew

Each year I make goals that I hope to accomplish
My intention this year will be to re-start those I break
Then again….maybe long terms goals should not be in my plan
 Perhaps I should make a list of intentions….
       then try to conquer only one each month

My first goal for the New Year…. I will write in my journal everyday
Today, the sixth day of January……
    Item one on my list has already been broken